Readers - Last December I shared this story on the joys found in making gifts during the holidays. But the wonderful thing about making for others is that it brings all that feel-good holiday energy no matter when you do it. So I’m making a few things now, just because. Please have a read and then consider making something special for the wonderful people in your lives. Just because. They’ll love it, I have no doubt. ~JRC
Make happy
I've said it before, but creating is the best medicine
First published Dec 20, 2021
Since early fall, I've been in a slump. It's a combination of things - uncertainty about COVID; worry for friends and family. And all the other unknowns that these unprecedented times bring.
You know - stuff that concerns us all.
Indeed times are different - and difficult. It seems we mark the changing seasons with loss and absence rather than bountiful celebration. It doesn't feel like a time for heralding in the season. And my mood has suffered.
But early last week, I took a step back and remembered what I already knew - if I wanted to feel better, I needed to make something. So I created a pact with myself and enlisted you to keep me honest.
I was going to make and I told you I would do it.
Now, let me pause to clarify. It might seem odd for someone who claims to be a maker not to make. But there are often many days, even weeks, where I am focused on less hands-on things. My writing, for example. And there is also a lot of contract planning that does not involve making anything tangible. Anyway, these "other" things can often get in the way of manual creativity. And if I let it go on for too long, well, I can get in a rut of not making a thing.
Even last week, after proclaiming I would make something, I was tempted to focus on other things. But I told you I would, and so I did. If only to save face.
Boy, am I glad I did.
In all honesty, I didn't completely follow through. I said I would weld up a cart for a couple of tools. And I started by getting the steel I needed for the project. But as I cleaned and prepped my workspace for the work ahead, I shifted gears and made some Christmas gifts instead.
I had meant to make the gifts all along, but my slump got in the way. Christmas was fast approaching, and I would miss the mailing deadlines if I didn't buckle down now. So I rolled up my sleeves and got to work.
Let me tell you; it was a relief. I immediately brightened up as I began to make. And getting into the creative flow happened more quickly than I expected. The hours flew by, and I had some creations that I was proud to say I made by the end of it. They're off to parts far and wide now, hopefully arriving in time for Christmas.
I'm sure those who'll receive them will be thankful. It's the thought that counts, and taking the time to hand-make stuff is always appreciated. But I remind myself I am equally the benefactor in all this. Making things makes things better for the maker.
Yes, taking the time to make things for others is a real blessing. Perhaps one of the greatest gifts I could ask for at this time. So thanks for keeping me honest. And thanks for giving me a reason to make.
JRC
I think you’re saying that making makes for happiness all around, and at any time…which I have also found personally to be true. 😊
Sometimes the gifts made and given just because…those unrelated to birthdays, Christmas, and other events…bring a special kind of happiness to both the maker and the recipient.