Another one from the past. Nostalgia is such a part of this time of year, so I thought it fitting to dust this one off. ~JRC
The nostalgia of making
Yes, it's about creating, but it's also about connecting
First published April 19th, 2021
When I create things with my hands, I feel connected to all those who inspired me to make. It's a powerful kind of nostalgia. But instead of simply reminiscing about "days gone by," I actively relate with them in real time. Creating is pure magic like that - it's like I conjure through space and time while making with my hands. And in doing so, the people who have inspired me are right there with me, creating in my shop.
While I am technically by myself when I create, I am anything but alone. My dad's woodworking skills show up in a nicely mitered joint. As I knead dough, my mom is there sharing the work.
My buddy Jamie's model build talents materialize in a kit assembly. And when I do anything with a car, my brother's mechanical prowess guides me. All these and countless more walk with me as I make.
This connection is the main reason I make. Sure, it is gratifying to create things with my hands. I appreciate the process and am often proud of the outcome.
But it's that feeling of togetherness that makes it rewarding. Watercolors unite me with my friend Karen. Artist's clay - with Jacey. Running a chainsaw ties me to Chris.
I don't get to see these people often, but knowing they are with me in spirit keeps the friendships alive and well.
The connection to people while making is not always about looking back, either. Each day I make, I am forging new relationships with the makers I know now. When I solder, I often think of Ash, an electrical engineering student and aspiring circuit builder. My pal Jack, an avid gearhead, is now a part of my DIY repairs. And, of course, my son is with me in everything I do. These people have become an intimate part of my ever-growing network of creative nostalgia. And I can tap into it for company whenever I want.
This "making nostalgia" also connects me with many I have never engaged. Celebrity creators like Adam Savage, Norm Abram, and the late Bob Ross are with me, too. Their expertise and charisma brighten my experience. Likewise, for online creative friends whom I've never met in person. Dave, the historical artist; Josh, the independent filmmaker; Mike, the film critic - all a part of what I do.
Making unites me with so many people in so many wonderful and sometimes unexpected ways. It is a fundamental joy in creating. To know that people are there in some small but authentic way is heartwarming. So if I'm ever feeling alone and can't be with the ones I love, I make.
And the world is once again connected.
Until next time.
JRC
Beautifully said. I experience that connectedness with everything I make and do, but never put it into words.